| My name is Christoph, and I am almost 41 years (in June) young. Every since I was a child I had the strong desire to grasp the meaning of existence, trying to understand the motivation behind human behavior, the underlying reasons for suffering, conflict, violence and war. This quest has lead me through some very unique and life transforming experiences, all of which have provided me with much significant insight and knowledge.
The product of my life long studies is realize2actualize, a very practical and empowering philosophy of life and living, dedicated to the study of how we create our own reality.
I am now in the process of building my practice as motivational and inspirational speaker, personal growth facilitator, life coach, teacher and writer.
My life has been filled with quite a few challenges, all of which have lead me to this very unique point. Originally I am from Germany, but I moved and lived in Kansas in January of 1991, where I was married to an African American lady for 12 years. 3 amazing children were born out of this marriage, which was filled with a great amount of suffering and drama. After almost a decade of problems, and as a last attempt to reconcile our differences we sent our children in March of 2000 to live with my wifes sister here in San Francisco. After 2 more long years of going through marriage therapy, and after all attempts to save the marriage failed I finally made the long overdue decision to file for divorce, which was finally granted in Febuary of 2003. Since my children lived in California, and in order to become reunited with them I quit my job which I had for more than 10 years in order to move from Kansas to San Francisco, when the following day I became the victim of a hit and run accident, and even though only my left leg got broken in the process I was left penniless and without a home.
I finally moved to SF around Christmas of 2003, when I stayed in a shelter for a little more than 4 month, before a kind soul responsed to my ad on craiglist, and he allowed me to be his guest (without having to pay any rent) in his one bedroom apartment in the upper Haight Ashbury. There I stayed for 2 1 /2 years, which allowed me to regain some of my spiritual, emotional and physical strength.
As of March of 2005 I started working a full time job in telemarketing, and since then have moved several times. Most of the places I moved into were shared living arrangements which did not allow me the privacy to concentrate on my work, and so I have been back and forth between staying in a youth hostel (where I stayed twice), an in home care situation, and a few other living situations which never really allowed the the space to concentrate on my work.
What I am looking for is a comfortable room in a good location in San Francisco, preferrably with basic furniture such as a bed, desk and chair. While I dont have a problem with sharing an apartment with other people I would need to have the kind of workspace with a desk for my computer, access to the internet, and and a small personal space to allow me to focus on my work.
I am in the process of getting my first clients, and putting together a regular study group and workshop, so it would be wonderful if this is something which I could do from my new home. Also, I am also beginning to write and publish small articles, and starting on a book, and so I would need to be be able to fully concentrate on my writing.
Since my 3 children are not living with me I am trying to create the kind of income necessary to be reuinted with them. This is my main focus, my main motivational force, and so I am very serious about finding a temporary place for at least 6 month to be able to concentrate on my work. It would be also nice if you have the kind of place which would make it possible for my 3 teenage children, or at least one of them to visit once every 2 weeks or so and maybe spend the night.
My credit requires some serious rebuilding, and so I am not able to come up with a deposit, and I cannot afford a lot of money at this point, but there is something else I can contribute to your household; other than helping with basic chores around the house I could serve as your personal life coach and mentor who is helping you be-come inspired, motivated and empowered to deal with life's problems and challenges in a more positive and pro-active way, and develop a whole new attitude and outlook in life. For more information on who I am, and to get information on my work please check out my personal website: realize2actualize.googlepages.com
Thank you for your time, and I look forward to be hearing from you soon.
Christoph Ebert
aka realize2actualize
realize2actualize.googlepages.com
www.youtube.com/user/realize2actualize
groups.yahoo.com/group/realize2actualize |
